My father was killed when I was sixteen. Since I was next to the oldest
of eleven, I naturally became second mom to all my brothers and sisters.
When I met and married Jim 55 years ago, we found we both loved children.
Our natural instincts were to seek out young people. We loved horses with
almost the same passion. The dream began: A ranch for kids and
horses. At that time in our lives we had no funds, no ranch, no horse
trailer, no large barns, extra saddles, etc. And so we began to work with
the kids and horses, any time and any place. Our fame spread through word
of mouth until we were snowed with both, with no place to put them.
Through the years our dream never died. We had two children of our own, a
boy and a girl, who inherited our love for horses. 4-H clubs came into
our area, so I became a leader. For the next forty years, fifty or more
young people became our responsibility, along with the same number of
horses of all breeds and sizes. This experience helped us to realize what
horses can do for kids and what kids can do with horses.
All this was done on
leased property. We longed for land of my own to build a ranch, so we
would have a permanent place for these kids and horses we loved. Finally,
we have it here in Arizona – twenty acres all our own. My husband and I
worked hard all our lives to maintain our kids and our horses. Many hours
of after-work time was consumed by building fences, barns, hauling and
baling hay, cooking for and entertaining our kids, of which now
numbered into the thousands. Some stayed only a short time, others
longer. Our children grew up with at least five or six extras at our home
every day, but they never complained because they knew there was enough
love to go around.
Three years ago,
catastrophe struck our family. Our son was diagnosed with cancer -
Hodgkin’s Lymphoma. We lost him within one year. Even though his sister
was a perfect match for a stem cell transplant, the doctors could not get
him into remission long enough to perform the operation. Between sessions
of chemotherapy, we waited and prayed for a miracle. During this time, he
spent many hours on his horse, riding with his friends and family. On
November 11, 2000, he went to be with his God in whom he believed very
strongly. We miss him very much.
We are dedicating this
ranch to him and are determined to build a haven where cancer patients and
others can spend time loving and working with our horses. Even though we
lost our son, we feel that he lives on in our hearts and would be very
pleased to be a part of our ranch for kids, helping to ease the waiting
time for a cure. We would like to give these young people a place to spend
time away from doctors, nurses, needles and IV’s, a place where family and
friends can be together to enjoy our beautiful ranch and animals.
We need your
help to do this. Recently we became non-profit and can accept donations,
which can be written off on your taxes. A little at a time we are building
a place that will be beautiful, comfortable and safe. Your help would be
greatly appreciated. We need lumber, landscaping, fences, riding helmets,
more horses (very gentle and well trained – older ex-show horses are
great), food for kids and horses, stall mats, stall panels, horse
shelters, land movers, plumbers, electricians, etc. The list goes on. Our
ultimate goal is to build a log-home to use as a bunkhouse and recreation
center. We hope you can help us give these kids and horses a home in
which to play and heal. Share with us the happiness we have in giving to
others.